Lucie Fielding |
LF says, "I am queer, kinky, polyamorous, Jewish, non-binary, trans-femme and witchy."
As they used to sing on Sesame Street,
"One of these things is not like the other." The point of the song
was to help young children to learn how to classify objects. Blue things are
all alike and different from green things. Rectangles are all alike and
different from circles.
What's different about LF's
self-identifiers?
That's correct. The word
"Jewish." Claiming to be "witchy" and polyamorous is very
much not like claiming to be Jewish. See, for example, Exodus 20:14,
Deuteronomy 5:21, Exodus 22:18, Genesis 24:65, Genesis 9:21-27, Genesis 19,
teachings on tznuit,
or modesty – see this article – etc.
Given that the activities that Fielding
advocates for are expressly condemned in Judaism, why does LF claim Jewishness?
One word: identity.
People crave meaning as they crave food.
Identity is a big part of meaning. LF wants to be "Jewish" because
being "Jewish," even for an American who rejects core tenets of
Judaism, endows the claimant with a sense of identity and a sense of meaning.
Life can seem meaningless. Life
intimidates us with big, scary questions. "Why am I here? What is this all
about? Where did I come from? Where am I going? Is there a God? Does God have
any relationship to me? Am I connected to others, to the past, to the future,
or am I just a lonely particle floating around empty space?"
These big, scary questions are reduced
to a background whisper, rather than a bullying shout, once one slaps on an
identity moniker as if it were a nametag. In the case of folks like LF, the nametag
is the kind with weak adhesive. You can remove it at the orgy, and replace when
convenient to your search for identity.
"Identity" answers one
question. Here's the next obvious question. Why doesn't LF just, simply, be
Jewish?
At minimum, follow the Ten Commandments.
Read the Bible. Attend synagogue. For a bigger experience of identity, LF could
keep kosher, join a Jewish community.
And then there's the biggest commitment
of all. Believe in God. Pray. Do God's will.
LF chooses not to do those things for
the same reasons that anyone rejects a religion does so. LF doesn't believe in
Jewish behavior's efficacy, and LF finds these behaviors too hard. LF would
prefer to covet others' spouses, attend orgies, eat pork, party on the Sabbath.
People leave Christianity / Hinduism /
Islam for similar reasons. "I don't believe this does any good,"
"This is hard," "I'd rather do other things."
Judaism makes high demands. There are
613 commandments.
Yes, we all know that Judaism is,
famously, an ethnicity as well as a religion. But Jews insist that Jews who
convert to Christianity can no longer be allowed to call themselves
"Jews." How about Jews who orchestrate and encourage trans orgies? I
would think that that would be as much of a disqualifier of Jewish identity as
accepting a Jew, Jesus, as the promised Messiah, that is, a Jewish concept.
In short, the need for identity trumps
logic. People cling to identity in ways that simply aren't rational.
***
Here's a very, very counter factual
analogy.
What if …
What if, in 1945, after the end of World
War II, it was widely known what atrocities the Germans had committed in Poland?
What if it were also widely known that the advancing Red Army, as it made its
way West, was raping every female they could get their hands on, and sometimes
literally raping women, girls, children, grandmothers, concentration camp
survivors, to death? What if it were also widely known that the USSR would take
control of East Germany for the next forty plus years, and maintain a notorious
police state?
And what if social media existed back
then?
I'm Polish-American. I would be outraged
and broken-hearted at the atrocities Germans committed against my relatives and
other Poles.
Even so, I cannot imagine posting on
social media, "The Germans committed atrocities against Poles; therefore,
I don't care about German women and children being raped by the Red Army. I
don't care about the USSR turning East Germany into a prison nation with no
human rights, for the next two generations, including Germans born after the
fall of Nazism."
Why would I not say that?
Because what the Red Army did was wrong.
Period. No further discussion. Nothing justifies the atrocities that Russians
committed against German women. Nothing justifies the USSR turning East Germany
into a prison state.
It's a slogan children can understand.
"Two wrongs don't make a right."
***
After Russia invaded Ukraine, Tablet:
A New Read on Jewish Life published an article that depicted Ukraine as a
"muddy," "freezing" "slaughterhouse." I blogged
about that article here.
The timing of the article deserves
attention. Ukraine is under attack.
Some basic facts:
Vladimir Putin, alone, is the author of
this war. He is a power-mad monster. He kills his enemies for fun, often using
poison. He has threatened America with nuclear war. Ukraine posed zero threat
to Russia. NATO is no threat to Russia. There is no rational, decent reason for
supporting Russia in this war.
Decent, rational people support Ukraine,
and want to see Russia defeated, for reasons too numerous to detail here.
But here are some.
Ukraine is a major grain producer. Areas
of Africa and Asia rely on Ukrainian grain. There is grain in Ukrainian silos
now ready for market. Russia is preventing it from reaching the market. Ukraine
is also a major producer of edible oil. Russia is preventing that from reaching
hungry people.
The war is increasing gas prices worldwide.
Russia is committing war crimes. Rape,
torture, murder of innocents. All documented.
Rational, decent people support Ukraine.
The Tablet article appeared at
the wrong time.
What else was wrong with the article? It
resorted to the Bieganski stereotype. The article was not an intellectually
and morally responsible treatment of atrocity. The depiction, rather, supported
a stereotype of Eastern European, Christian, peasant-descent populations as
*essentially* brutal, irrational, violent, hateful, anti-Semites.
That stereotype is false.
Saying that a stereotype is false is not
the same as saying that bad things never happened.
Again, an analogy. There are anti-Semites
who insist on depicting Communist atrocities that were committed or facilitated
by Jews like Jakub Berman and Lazar Kaganovich not as events of a given time,
place, and set of circumstances, but, rather, as expressions of an essential,
timeless, Jewish character. These anti-Semites insist that Jews did bad things,
not because of the particular time and place and circumstances surrounding the
atrocity, rather, Jews did bad things because Jews do bad things, no matter the
time or place or circumstances or individual involved.
That's stereotyping.
Did Ukrainians commit atrocities against
Jews? Yes, they did. That is a well known fact, dramatized, albeit in a sanitized
form, in one of the most popular musicals of all time, "Fiddler on the
Roof."
To understand those atrocities, one must
understand something of Ukrainian history. Those resorting to stereotyping, as
in the case of the above-mentioned Tablet article, assiduously refrain
from mentioning any of that history.
"You're just saying that because
you are not Jewish and you do not feel our pain!"
Well, no. There are tens of millions of
non-Jewish people who also have reason to have historical grievances with
Ukrainians. Poles. Ukrainians committed massive atrocities against Poles at
least twice in history: under Chmielnicki and during WW II. The Chmielnicki
events of the seventeenth century were particularly devastating. They were part
of something called "The Deluge" when Poland was attacked from all sides,
weakened, and later lost its independence and became a colony of Russia,
Prussia, and Austria. This resulted in horrific conditions in Poland. Poles are
hyper aware of this history.
Again, in the twentieth century,
Ukrainians massacred perhaps 100,000 Poles. Ukrainians raped and tortured
Poles. Poles were sawn in half. Towns that had been Polish for centuries were
ethnically cleansed forever. They are now Ukrainian towns. Poland lost a good
part of its historic national territory.
And yet Poles are second to none in the
generosity they have shown Ukrainians.
Why?
At least part of the reason is that we
realize that Ukrainians who committed atrocities were not acting out an
essential identity. Rather, they were responding to a given set of
circumstances at a specific moment in history, and unless you provide THE FULL
STORY of that entire historical moment you can never understand – not rationalize,
not forgive, not justify – but simply understand – what happened.
***
I exercise zero political power. Even
so, I frequently announce, in public, that I support Israel. I once went so far
as to write an article explaining why I support Israel. That article is here;
it was reprinted in an Israeli newspaper.
I care about Israel's survival as a nation
and I care about individual Israeli citizens. When violence heats up I try to
post pro Israel posts on social media. I lack the magical ability to protect
people I care about in Israel, but at the very least, and I know this is a
small thing, I can say, "I care about you. I am praying for you. I'm
letting people know that I support Israel and that anyone who makes any
anti-Israel comments will face pushback from me."
***
A Jewish Facebook friend shared the Tablet
article. Numerous persons, identifying as Jewish, said things like
"Wow. I had no idea Ukraine was such a hellhole. Makes me rethink my
support for this war."
Another Jewish friend said, repeatedly,
at least five times and certainly more, that he is magnanimous enough to offer
Ukraine grudging support, even though it is a "shameful" country
inhabited by Slavic rapists and he is personally ashamed of having roots in
Eastern Europe, nations full of rapists and murderers.
Another Jewish friend sicced her
non-Jewish friend on me, who came to my page and yelled at me.
Another said that I am a Polish
nationalist and therefore nothing I say can be supported factually.
Another Jewish friend, ironically,
someone with whom I had attended a march against violence against Jews, said
nothing as his evidently clinically insane friend screamed insults at me in
post after post. What insults? I'm stupid, violent, a thug. The Bieganski
stereotype.
Another Jewish friend lectured me about
how Eastern Europeans are rapists and murderers – the accusations are predictable
and entirely in line with the Bieganski stereotype as
outlined in my book.
This friend insisted that the Holocaust
was a "culmination" of Eastern European peasant Christians'
anti-Semitism.
This claim is astounding. I pointed out to
this person that, in terms of raw numbers (as opposed to percentages of populations),
Nazis murdered more Slavic non-Jews than Jews. I posted the charts, below. The millions
of dead Slavs would seem to suggest that my friend's insistence that the
Holocaust was a project of Slavs, as opposed to Nazis, is open to question.
His response to my mention of Slavic,
non-Jewish deaths under the Nazis? He told me to stop talking to him.
The people saying these bigoted things
to me are people who had previously given every sign of wanting to associate
with me, even to associate with me more closely than is typical of social
media. One had given me his phone number and encouraged me to chat with him over
the phone. Another had once sent me a really lovely present: the CD set of
Phillip Glass' opera "Satyagraha." I'm a big fan of Glass' music.
And yet these same people who had seemed
to want to be friendly to me now said the most shocking, bigoted, ugly, things
about Slavic Christians, apparently expecting me to nod my head and smile and
say, "Oh, you are so right. Me and my ancestors? Nothing but murderous
scum. And have a nice day."
In other words, the irrationality and
cluelessness of these stereotyping posts is quite high. And it is telling. These
folks are not thinking things through, I suspect. They are falling back on a
stereotype, a stereotype that is important to their personal sense of identity.
***
What do all of the above facts add up
to? To me, they are evidence of the accuracy of the diagnosis offered in my
book Bieganski.
All people, not just Jews, reinforce
identity through stereotyping, for example: "Whites are hard working /
Blacks are lazy." "Brahmins are spiritual / Untouchables are without divine
contact." "Chinese are good businesspeople / Malaysians are not good
at business."
I remember Denzel Washington, one of the
most successful people who has ever lived, referring to himself as a
"slave." Of course he's not a slave; of course he's just saying that
because it gives him a feeing of enhanced identity. Washington could dedicate himself
to the African slaves living today. Maybe he's done that; I don't know. But working
on ending slavery today is much harder than identifying oneself as a slave, and,
thereby, as a hero who has overcome impossible odds.
That Facebook posters, including
friends, felt perfectly comfortable screaming at me that I am an essential rapist
and murderer because I descend from Slavic Christians (and Pagans) indicates to
me that not a lot of thought is taking place here. These folks are repeating a
stereotype that they have invested in without intellectual reflection.
How significant in this trend? I have no
idea. I'm writing about material coming through my Facebook feed. I did not
seek this material out; it just showed up. After a Jewish friend insisted that
the trend is insignificant, I googled "Should Jews support Ukraine?"
and I found similar comments on other platforms.
For example, I found the page linked here.
This website claims "as many as
100,000 Jews died" in the Chmielnicki uprising.
Wikipedia
disagrees. "Newer studies have estimated the Jewish population of that
period in the affected areas of Ukraine is estimated at around 50,000."
Chmielnicki was fighting against Poles,
the article admits, but "his real victims were the Jews."
Wikipedia disagrees. "Population
losses of the entire Commonwealth population in the years 1648–1667 (a period
which includes the Uprising, but also the Polish-Russian War and the Swedish
invasion) [The Deluge] are estimated at 4 million (roughly a decrease from 11
to 12 million to 7–8 million)."
The article depicts Ukrainians as anti-Semitic
monsters. That effort worked for at least one reader, who responded that
Ukrainians "dropped the lethal pellets into the gas chambers. The Ukraine
had it's own Nazi SS Division. Mila Kunis' family left Ukraine because they
hate Jews. What is so complicated?"
The article includes a graphic depiction
of torture. The depiction was written by Nathan Hannover, a famous historian of
this period. The article carefully omits one of Hannover's most famous quotes.
Here it is: the Ukrainians "were looked upon as lowly and inferior beings
and became the slaves and the handmaids of the Polish people and of the Jews."
We know why the article does quote
Hannover but leaves out that key quote. Because the article is doing the work
of stereotyping. Ukrainians are just a bunch of *essential* rapists and
murderers. Their very country is a "muddy freezing slaughterhouse."
We must repeat this, to cement our own idea of ourselves, even as Ukraine is subject
to horrific war crimes, and our support is vital.
Ukrainians were oppressed by Poles and
Jews. Ukrainians victimized Polish Catholics as well as Jews. These facts do
not *justify* the atrocities Ukrainians committed. These facts do put those
atrocities in context. Polish peasants committed similar atrocities against Polish
Catholic nobility during an uprising in 1846. Notoriously, Polish Catholic peasants
sold the heads of Polish Catholic nobility to foreign colonizers.
There are many atrocities in the long history
of Eastern Europe. Not all these atrocities involved Christians killing Jews.
Some involved Catholics killing Catholics. Some, as in the case of Berman and
Kaganovich, involve Jews committing massive wrongs against non-Jews. To omit these
facts is to distort history, but to reinforce identity.
***
A Facebook friend yelled at me for even
mentioning this trend. She wants me to mention that Jews support Ukraine. She
herself has donated to Ukraine, and she is not a wealthy person. God bless her.
I don't know how representational this trend
is. Someone with research funds can conduct a survey and get back to me. All I know
is, it exists, and its existence is not random. Its existence is evidence of
the continued vitality, power, and function of the Bieganski stereotype.
I just googled "Israel support
Ukraine." An image of the results is below. It looks as though Israel has
been careful about supporting Ukraine.
I just googled "American Jews Support
Ukraine." Those results also suggest a less than wildly enthusiastic level
of support. Again, this is a Google search, not a fully funded survey, so it is
inaccurate, an impression of trends, not a statement of actual support.